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Equity. Strategy. Impact. In Practice.
We help organizations build cultures where equity becomes operational—not performative. Our work is queer-led, grounded in social science and gender studies research, and focused on sustainable change that improves worker retention and program outcomes. We partner with nonprofits, schools, municipalities, and mission-driven teams to turn values into training, policy, and practice.
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“Practical tools our staff could use the same day — training that we could understand and put into everyday practice.”
• Empathy‑Based Training with scenario labs and pre/post confidence checks • ADA‑literate leadership for supervisors and HR with disclosure scripts and timelines • Sector‑specific LGBTQ+ inclusion modules with facilitator notes
• Intake and privacy policies with form fields and data‑handling flags • Repair pathways with manager scripts and accountability steps • Accommodations workflow with timelines, roles, and templates
• Grant strategy and language aligned to practical deliverables, timelines, and roles • Extensive knowledge of local and State-funded grants serving youth, queer, senior, and communities in need of mental health support • Measurement plans small teams can collect without data theater, tied to behavior, with as much automated data collection as possible to ease reporting processes
• Strong public speaker with experience in keynote delivery, plenary, breakout session, and classroom facilitation • Confident in our ability to create the specific learning moments you need for staff and clients • Extensive experience in planning training events and conferences, with a focus on mental health and the queer community
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Proof you can point to
- Pioneered state-level affirming policy infrastructure — Authored foundational policy language across youth-serving systems (child welfare, RHY, juvenile justice, education) that translates affirming values into implementable practice, with explicit privacy protections, accommodation workflows, and repair protocols built for frontline staff
- Designed and deployed Compassion-First Research-Based Training as a measurable system — Created a modular, evidence-based framework that trains empathy as an observable skill (awareness, language, behaviors, boundaries, repair), complete with facilitator notes, manager scripts, intake checklists, and pre/post confidence measures used across schools, nonprofits, and agencies.
- Led coalition-scale institutional change — Stewarded a legacy LGBTQ+ community center through strategic growth, coalition-building with municipal and state partners, and visibility campaigns that centered implementation over performance, strengthening offerings for the most vulnerable populations.
- Built policy-to-practice translation methodology — Developed the "crosswalk" approach that walks affirming principles down into intake forms, pronoun fields, data privacy flags, manager scripts, grievance paths, and 90-day adoption audits—writing simultaneously for frontline workers, managers, and legal counsel with plain English and explicit behaviors.
Trusted by teams across nonprofits, schools, healthcare, and public agencies.
Why do organizations choose us?
"We don't do performative equity. We build systems that work—clear policies, confident staff, measurable outcomes. Organizations choose us because we've done the work ourselves, and we know how to help you do it too."
-Nathaniel Gray, MSW
About the Founder
Nathaniel Gray, MSW is a strategist and trainer who translates equity into operational practice. With experience spanning state policy authorship, nonprofit executive leadership, coalition-building across municipal and agency partners, and delivery of 300+ trainings, Nathaniel helps organizations move from values to measurable, frontline-ready systems.
As an Empire State Fellow, Nathaniel co-authored foundational affirming practice models that reshaped youth-serving systems across child welfare, juvenile justice, and education. As Executive Director of a legacy LGBTQ+ community center, Nathaniel secured multimillion-dollar public funding, stewarded strategic growth, and scaled programs serving tens of thousands annually. Today, Nathaniel partners with nonprofits, schools, municipalities, and mission-driven teams to design policy-to-practice tools—intake forms, repair scripts, accommodation workflows, and training frameworks—that frontline staff can use from a place of confidence and support.
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You've read this far because something here resonated. Maybe it's the promise of tools your team can actually use. Maybe it's the relief of working with someone who gets both the policy and the pressure; who had experience on both sides of practice. Either way, you're ready to move from intention to implementation.
If you're ready to turn equity into operation, let's talk.
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